To me you're rather negatively naive, close minded and nosy. This is speaking not solely of our last encounter but knowing that if I personally wouldn't reveal something you'd ask the other parties involved or anyone who might know for an answer. It's a very distasteful trait. Your views have changed though for the wrong reasons in my opinion. However I'm not one to judge things like right or wrong reasons. (Meaning I have no right to) I can be thankful that you at least have the possibility to become more accepting later in life. Otherwise though you should keep in mind to respect others boundaries. Along with that don't assume with having little information on topics. If you're to so negatively see a situation first research or get educated about it. Lastly Control yourself. Name calling and insults will gain no ones favor. I almost never mute legitimate members of this community but my patience wears thin after a few years.