This isn't a hardcore mmo game where you actually earn gear. Exotic doesn't mean rare or special necessarily, just different from others. You didn't do anything special to get your Universal Remote or Heart of Praxic Fire to begin with - you were simply lucky. Why would being lucky make you feel special?? You didn't do anything that some kid with a 0.1 kd in Crucible didn't do for your exotic. If Xur ever sells Fatebringer or Hunger of Crota or Abyss Defiant or Vision of Confluence or Vex Mythoclast or Necrochasm...then and only then can you rightfully be upset. Why? Those kinds of items are the ONLY earned items in the game. Until then, you're just like some hipster kid who stops liking a band when everyone else starts liking them. Get over yourself, you're no more or less special than anyone else with or without Universal Remote.