My wife works at night while I work during the day. I usually have to feed the three kids and prep dinner for when my wife will get home before I can get some play time. That being said, I also wake up very early (4:00 AM) so I can get even more playtime. When my wife is home, I usually only get to play while she is either sleeping or when she has work from home to do. Luckily she is a night owl and sleeps very late into the day.