Dude, just find a day and explain to your gf THAT day is your destiny day, get all of your business done in like 3 hours and just play minimally after the kids are in bed during the rest of the week if time permits. My gf knows when I get home on Tuesdays after I visit a minute I'm going to raid for awhile then we'll watch a movie or something together. She's got no issues with it at all.