I am in the same boat, only play when kids in bed. I have one night off Destiny a week where I do whatever the wife wants. I manage to get in about 3-4 hours a night on Destiny for my weekly nightfalls, raids, etc and if I get time I jump in crucible. Its a struggle to juggle gaming when the wife is not into it at all. I have a study room setup away from the main TV room so when I am shouting down the mic "take his shield down" I dont disturb anyone else lol. I have made some great friends playing Destiny over last 4-5 months, been a great experience. It's only the trolls that make these forums toxic, just play your own game and dont slate a legit forum post to bring it down