Damn the internet shut SEANY down. I know the struggle well. The struggle is finding the perfect balance. The key is NOT making your wife/girlfriend feel like destiny is the other woman in your life. Here's what I do. On Tuesdays I do nightfall on one char. before I go to work, and spend time with her when I get home from work. The same on Wednesday. Thursday is weekly in the morning. Same on Friday. Friday night after I the kids are asleep we hangout till about midnight or 1 in the morning, then I raid. Raid some more on Saturdays. Hope this helps