First rule of thumb in marriage is happy wife, happy life! Luckily for me and my wife decided against kids so that frees up loads of time. My honey do list for the house takes precedence but I usually will play a strike or something, do a chore and then repeat. My stuff gets done and keeps the wifey off my back. I either stay on late after she's asleep or I'll play while she is at work. It hard not being so selfish with my time but it's so worth it when all is said and done.