Yeah, I mean sometimes I wish I had children but then I get over it by thinking about being able to do literally anything, anytime I want and the only "planning" is just sending my wife a text letting her know where I'm going to go. Actual text conversation: Me: Hey, going to fly down to Vegas tonight with Joe and Tom (I live in WA) Wife: Cool, when are you leaving? Me: A few hours, we just decided to go. Should be back in about 6 days Wife: Ok, have fun Me: Thanks, love ya Wife: It's just a trip to Vegas, don't get emotional on me :) :)