In that situation you don't have other chance,you must wait patiently,problem is,people on depression are not in the same situation,they are not in a war,and the one who look like exemplars of bravery they aren't,one cannot suffer a lot without going in depression,they might not show it in the day,maybe when they are alone and secure that no one is watching. I did the same until i couldn't handle it,that left me with horrible pain that cannot be removed.