That's your specific opinion though and more girls get offended from some things than other. On the topic of hairy assholes I'm not talking about that because you cannot contribute to the conversation effectively the same way as if I'm talking to only girls and they're talking about make up or their period I cannot contribute to the conversation. It's generalizing I'm not saying I'm not going to swear but I don't know you and I don't want to get you offended regardless of gender. Gender just comes into play because girls take some words more seriously then guys.