I'm a 35 year old man. I have kids of my own to play with. I play games with adults who work hard for a living and just want to unwind. Would it be acceptable if I were to play catch with some random kid that I just met? Sounds creepy doesn't it. If it were up to me, xbox live would have a filter that keeps kids out of my games. There's nothing I hate more than trying to do a raid and have some stupid kid making my ears bleed about some stupid topic that isn't even related to what I'm doing. I would pay extra for an adults only xbox live membership.