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originally posted in: My new girl wants me to quit Destiny
5/20/2015 6:22:23 PM
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Ok, im guessing you want real help. Here you go... Take a breath, sit down with her and tell her "we need to talk". That will get her attention. Now you both need to talk to each other and discuss these kinds of things. TOGETHER. Both of you will have to make sacrifices. You shouldn't be meeting her on her side. You should be meeting each other half way. Dont get mad during the discussion, dont raise your voice. Dont sound annoyed. Just talk calmly and caringly about the situation. She should understand and even want to lay down some ground rules. If she flat out refuses to budge and help you help the relationship, thats her fault. Not yours. But both of you really need to sit down, relax, and talk about it all. The who, what, where, when, why, etc. Make sure she knows why you like to play games and try to understand what she wants from you. Take it from me. I am currently in going onto 4 years in June with my girl. She knows i love games (she hates that i love them). But we compromise. Especially when new games come out, i tel her "hey this is what im doing this day and that day". Be respectful, but dont let yourself get walked on by her. Its not right.
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