If you bow to three things for her, then she must bow to three things for you. Simple as that. If she cant let you enjoy one small thing on your own then you might have a problem. If you consider this a hobby then you must not let her disrespect that, otherwise you'll fall into the ballsinajar catagory, and the pussyonapedistal program will be right around the corner...Or is it the other way around? I forget. No real man ever wants to fall into these traps, but some do not know thats exactly what they are...traps. What she did was a real shit thing to do, and I hope you addressed that with her. If you want this to work with your girl, then she has too want it to work as well. And what she is doing is NOT working right now. She is taking, taking, taking, but not giving you anything that you want (besides sex and beauty)...and IMO thats not a relationship, but rather a dicktatorship.