Looks will fade, but character is forever. Do NOT settle for someone who just wants to control you just because she's hot. As long as you're not playing destiny all day she has no excuse for making you quit. Balance your time out, give her attention and do things with and for her before you go on a binge. If she is still not ok with you playing afterwards, she is just needy and not worth your time. [spoiler]just read the spoiler and feel like an idiot. Still good advice if you ever encounter that situation for real though. Just sayin[/spoiler]