Idk if this is real or not but I'll drop some advice just in case it is. You need to talk to her and tell her how you feel. It's impossible to have a good relationship with somebody if you guys can't communicate. If you really care about each other then you'll be able to come to compromises for each other, she'll be able to respect your interests and you'll be able to respect hers. You will have to make sacrifices for her and she will have to do the same for you. If she can't respect how you feel and you guys can't work something out then she isn't the girl for you. Relationships are a two part thing. Each person controls one part. Both people have to tend to and take care of their part so that things can work, neither side can be neglected, both people have to work. Real relationships can't be done alone, you can't have one person doing all of the work while the other person does whatever they want, both people have to put in the effort and take things seriously. No relationship is perfect, you and your partner will get into arguments and fights and you'll have problems, but if you both really truly care about each other then you'll be able to work things out. If this girl is worth fighting for, then you'll just know, and if she makes you happy then you should go for her by all means. Bottom line she has to be able to respect you, and you have to be able to respect her. It's issues like these that really test the strengths and weaknesses of the relationship and the people who are involved in it. My girlfriend of two years and I just split up not too long ago and well it was really difficult. We had a really nice thing going, and we were both happy, of course our relationship had it's problems, but that's normal and we dealt with it and at times things were really difficult, but when we solved our problems things were amazing. You get attached and this person ends up meaning a whole lot to you. She and I were great, we just didn't work out and it was really tough. But I hope things with you work out, and I hope that you two are able to figure everything out and make the right choices and I hope that whatever you decide to do ends up making you both happy.