You are blaming the brother and not addressing the issue of the fact that behavior like that is unacceptable and should never happen. Instead you say "that's how it is, deal with it and don't play the game". Therefore you are defending the actions of the older kids and putting all the blame on the brother in disgusting fashion. Or are you too THICK to understand what I'm saying? and i'l spel howevr da faq eye whant too spelll. Okay?