I am not a bully. Got a kid in my clan who's only 13 and he's a beast. Sure his voice may be kiddish, but it's not his fault. If you're sitting there raging every 2 seconds with your squeaky voice, then of course older guys will get annoyed. My biggest advice is to just play smart, be laid bad and just be yourself. You'll run into others guardians like myself. I'm 21 and in college, btw.