Perhaps I can give a few tips since I was in your shoes not too long ago (I'm 20). First, do [b]NOT[/b] send people messages in game. I say this from experience because I get them quite often and most of the times I don't want to help you with whatever task you are looking to do because as someone who works and is in college, my time is limited and most days I just wanna mess around with friends that I don't get to see too often because of our schedules. I usually ignore any in game messages from fan do people anyways. I suggest using the recruitment section and find people looking to do the same objective as you. Second, act mature and don't talk a lot. This might sound mean but it's from experience. Often times when I had a high pitch voice I would get almost immediately kicked. So when I joined them, I would stay quite unless I had to say something and just show my skills and that I can play just as good if not better than the other people. Once your group get situated well, start talking to them. Just be really chill and don't get too excited about stuff if you do get hyper easily (Unless it's a Ghallajorn). Hope this helps