I learned my first curse word from a kid at my school. He also taught me the bird. Had no idea what that was so I went home and asked my mom as I flipped her the bird. That didn't go over well. I started playing shooters when I was 10. I'm 21 now and still actively play shooters. I'm a well rounded individual. I have a girlfriend. I hangout with my friends regularly. I'm going into my senior year of college. I work 35+ hours a week. I've never been arrested or even received a ticket for that matter. As for the amount of time you let your kids play video games that's up to you. If you don't want them playing for 3-4 hours then don't let them. I could only play an hour a day when I was young. Also it's worth mentioning I've never blown off anyone's head in real life nor have I TPed a building, destroyed a mailbox (people still do that?), and whatever else you said games like destiny lead to. Kids are gonna do bad things but most of the time they are influenced by people and other outside sources, not video games. It's your job as a parent to set boundaries for your kid. It's your job to explain the difference between TV/video games and the real world. It's your job to raise them properly. This isn't something I should have to explain to an adult and frankly it's just sad. Let's look at things destiny does right by the way. It has no cursing, it has no blood, and it isn't gory. Its a mildly violent game. The main thing is if you don't want your kids playing destiny then don't let them, but don't come onto these forums trying to preach your beliefs to us. I'm just upset I actually spent time to acknowledge and respond to you.