First of all congratulations on being a dad! That must be an awesome feeling! Good luck on everything mate. Second of all, I am personally like a strict playstation user myself (nothing against Xbox just have always played playstation) but I think for you, an Xbox 1 would be better! Just my personal opinion. If you do end up getting a ps4, feel free to add me (psn same as name) and I can help you out. Good luck! And cheers!