Congratulations on the little one! I don't really have any suggestions about what console to go to. I have a PS4, I would also have a one but thinking of paying for both,online and games is just a bit much. It really comes down to what games are coming out for which, and which do you like more. If you want to just play games then either is fine. If you want to watch TV and do all the other things Xbox can then I'd say that would be the choice. I know, no real help but I really don't think me just pushing one or the other helps either. Hopefully you can figure it out!!