Do you have a fool-proof way for us to know ahead of time if you're a nice guy or not? Also, do you have a fool-proof way to ensure that a guy who appears nice at first will always stay that way? We haven't found one yet... Also, people seem to have a hard time understanding that just because this space is all-female, it 1) isn't a threat to men and 2) doesn't mean that the members of this group never game with men. Different spaces serve different purposes, and this space is designed to serve our purposes, not yours. I'd think a nice guy like yourself could understand that...