Software has close to zero difference as 99% of games are ports. My advice is if you are young, get an Xbox one, if older get a ps4. PS4 community in my experience is a bit more mature, this isn't a dig, it's just based on my own experience. I have a ps4 as do a few friends, my son who is 12 has an Xbox One and most of his age go with Xbox, I like the differential to be honest. I have noticed there is a lot more hate mail flying round on Xbox after games like FIFA, COD etc, I suspect this is due to the age of the user base. Also, as someone who has both consoles in my house, the White ps4 is lovely and looks like a work of art. The Xbox in my opinion is a little ugly and will date quite badly.