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8/2/2015 10:05:32 PM
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The Truth about the Dames Bungie Bounty

My reflections on what happened with the Bungie Bounty and an important message about how to deal with trolls and harassment and how we can change the world. Please watch this is for all of you! <3 thank you

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  • Commenting to maybe watch this later.

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  • [spoiler]As a relatively new member of the community, I feel myself compelled to echo the sentiments voiced in this post (I have watched both Belle Bunny's and My name is BYF's videos). With Destiny, Bungie has created a compelling world, awe inspiring and full of beauty. And the community (mostly) reflects that. What saddens me is when the real world seeps in with its ugly head. Chief among these sad faces, I call out: - those who value their opinion above all who want to see things "differently", - those who will their voices to be heard loudest by silencing any "difference", -those who prefer to spew hate rather than share their love of something, simply because the ones who want to share it are "different". Such a small planet fighting against the Darkness. Isn't it sad that some Guardians want to cut others out of the fight for being... Different?! Regardless of the community or the society, be it real or virtual space : lacking respect and empathy towards one another can only be detrimental to all in the long run. Knowing that my reply is both needless and repetitive, I'd still prefer adding to the noise by saying "[b]We can ALWAYS be better to one another"[/b] rather than secretly nodding my head in another corner of these forums. So...[/spoiler] Bump. Respect.

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  • Why not just make a regular clan? Making it female only is exclusive in itself. Your team would be stronger with male and female players. Equal.

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  • Edited by MJCaboose_8taxes: 8/27/2015 9:30:44 AM
    Ppl still care bout this bull shit ??! They can all suck my balls

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  • God BelleBunny is even annoying when she's not ruining a podcast

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  • Thanks BelleBunny you're the best. A shining ray of Light to dispel the forces of hateful darkness.

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    • How would you know that oh wait

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    • ...are...are you the actual BelleBunny?

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    • It's a shame the Dames feel like they need a refuge. It's a sad reflection of modern society. Enjoy your safe haven Dames, can't say I blame you in the least.

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    • Belle, u guys just stay positive! U should never let someone else's comments or views affect u negatively! I do security and have to deal with threats and negative remarks on a daily basis! Comes with the territory! So I have a little bit of an inkling of what u guys r going through! Just a lil bit! And from personal experience, just ignore the ignorant lil turds! It does no one any good to let those comments get to u! If that happens then the offending party has won! They got exactly what they wanted. I'd just report anyone who makes offensive remarks/threats towards u and ur clan! Other that that just ignore em! Anyways I have rambled on for way longer than intended! I have a lot of respect for ur the dames of destiny and what u guys represent! Good luck and hope I didn't confuse ya over much!

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    • Respect and stay postive.

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    • I only actually have one problem with the Dames and their message. The fact that Belle said that their group happens to be a safe haven from trolls, negativity and other things. For me, it's not the fact that their group and clan is only for females that seems sexist for me, but the fact that it would seem from this message that at least in Belle's mind thinks that her group is a safehaven for people who happen to be female because their group is filled with people who happen to be female. Do you know what I mean? What is it about this group that makes itself a safe haven compared to groups that accept people who happen to be one of two or more genders? I understand it's not sexist in anyway to make a group only for only females or males because it's just for fun! They made a group that they enjoy and appreciate that is away from negative outsiders, but if they made it in the way it was or is being made because they thought that their gender restriction had anything to do with less negativity and trouble, then to me at least for now is sexist.

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    • Irritates me how pathetic people can be. Regardless of race/gender/sexuality we are just people, there is no right for anyone to impose their views on someone or belittle someone for their own. It really amazes me how we can't just be courteous to one another.

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    • Yep this issue is much bigger than gaming, gender, race or whatever. It's an individual problem. Individuals who feel that freedom of speech justifies or excuses the method of delivery of that speech really missed the point. Hyperbole example: [i]Exchanging opinions and why you have a certain position w/o any intention to permit anger to escalate to action against another individual is freedom of speech and permits you to stay in a community that doesn't share your views. This is acceptable. Using your voice to express violence or desire to harm another individual with intention to escalate to action intended or not, is not free speech. If it was terrorists could threaten all they want without fear of retaliation, regardless of actions of other terrorist individuals.[/i]. Thanks to globalization we are gaining a more global identity recognizing we're a human family. The only race that matters is the human race because we are born into it. It encompasses to include any differentiating criteria anyone can come up with. Violence, anger that motivates ill-will against each other, and threats of harm have no place among us. If you don't think that girls should play games, share your reasons, be vocal in discussions of the reasons you feel that way. You have every right in this global community. You also have a right to being treated as a member of our human race community. [i]That being said:[/i] Exemplified by old westerns when people that maintained a certain way of life (rustlers, gun fighters, womanizers, etc) came into town, into a [i]community[/i] of peace loving people they would be met with a warning by the law-enforcers representing that town that they were welcome until there was a threat to the way of life (or peace) of that community. If that threat arose as a result of behavior, verbal or otherwise they would be ejected from the community on a rail. As non-violently as the offender would permit. These examples are the reason I have my opinion anyone can play what they want how they want as long as it promotes more peace loving people who want to "play". Because let's face it, we're all playing.

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      • Edited by Optimusrockstar: 8/15/2015 6:03:43 PM
        Hello Bellebunny.

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      • Bitch this "drama" was so like last week or so. -blam!- outta here with this bs and go fix a pimp a drink. lol

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        • Hand them over. I am here to collect.

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        • Edited by Wizardmanguy : 8/5/2015 8:01:52 PM
          Belle, I won't really apologize since I wasn't really playing destiny then, and moreover- I don't really hang out with the community so much these days. And as I've learned from my fiancé, apologizing without a reason is meaningless. That being said: I empathize with the plight of gaming as a community. Regardless of what everyone says this all boils down to just basic. Human. Decency. And we're all animals. It's just to what degree. I am glad this has been a learning experience for you and the dames. Should you have any beer or bacon to spare, and you can find us, you can hire WizCorp! (Or you know, send us friend requests or whatever.) To everyone else- It is your prerogative to have your clan be what you want. You want it for 18-inch long wieners, have at it. If you want it to be for gay/straight/black/white/green/Christian/Islamic/German/Chinese/hentai pride, go for it. But while this is the internet, the days of wild-west style freedom (at least in the U.S.) is coming to a bit of a close. I can't say I'm sad to see it go, but you did this to yourselves. Now if we (mind if I use that term loosely?) don't clean up the act a little, you all might find that one day, before you know it, not the grammar police, the actual police might come a'knockin on your door. It's already happening! An old marine told me once: "your rights end where mine begins. Sometimes that's how it goes, other times it's not. But if you treat everyone like that, you'll never need to run from the MP's" - SGT "chick" puller, USMC, RET. Signed, Josh "Wizardmanguy" K. ...definitely not ~TheGreatNike (edited)

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          • I don't mind at all to play with girls on destiny! You are sexist jerks!

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          • This community is genuinely toxic. Seeing people do this is not an acceptable thing to say. ANYONE who supports sexism should just get out of this community. I believe that would be half of this shitty community. Good luck Dames. Don't let anyone put you down. Anyone who says otherwise is a toxic ass. You don't necessarily need to agree with everything the Dames say, but sexual harassment? Extreme profanity towards women? [i]-blam!- threats?[/i] That's not right. I hope that anyone who participated in this shitty act gets their ass kicked by Karma.

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          • @lnf3Rn0 Dear God dude. fundamentally sexist? Really? If the Dames choose to play with Girls then that's their choice. If for no other reason than to know that they are not going to have to put up with a bunch of bull from the Toxic Minority. It's not sexist. Its a choice. She brought this on herself? My oh My.,A girl Gamer brings hate just by being a girl gamer and joining a clan that she feels is a safe/good choice as a girl gamer. So by your process. A girl going for a night out and dressing nice making herself look good to feel good Deserves anything bad that happens to her. You sir are an ASS!!!!. Muted forever. @Belle, I followed the furor during and after the games. As a male gamer and a Clan member (My own Clan) I was absolutely disgusted by the messages and comments. Unfortunately their is a generation that feels the Internet is a place where they can say whatever they want to whomever they want with no consequences. The same people will be very vocal in this post. Killing them with kindness might not be the answer. A mute/ignore button isn't the answer (although it helps). Educating these people is probably never going to happen. They are going to go through life looking for the minority to rage on to make themselves feel good. Hopefully in the future there will be an enhanced option for console gamers to Delete/Block/Report and be rid of these people. I wish your Dames all the best with your gaming future and hope that by sharing this you can educate at least one person

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            • [i][b]<Insert Controversy Here>[/b][/i] [i][b] - CNN[/b][/i]

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            • The amount of white knights in this thread just created the theoretical white hole, engulfing the entire expanse of the universe. May god help us!

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            • I remember when harass was 2 words

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              • Edited by Grover: 8/7/2015 8:03:41 AM
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                Damn dey raw doe.

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