My memories of the first year of Destiny are filled with great times spent with my friends, not with my gear. I remember how amazing the feeling of our first Vault of Glass run was. The mystery, the excitement... It was all a brand new experience that I shared with good friends and I cannot wait to experience that again. A lot of people think Destiny is about the gear grind, and if you look at it that way then I can sort of see why you're bugged out. But if you think of it as something to do with friends, then you never end up feeling what you are expressing. There is nothing more appealing to me than all new gear, all new missions, and all new experiences to be had.