I was exactly the same as you, my friend. Ardently, fervently against any online interaction. It took all of 6 weeks to realise that if I wanted to run VoG, then I needed to team up. I was lucky in that a found a group of chill people to do it with. Nowadays I still try to go solo or just play with my GF, but will team up if it is something that I need a team to complete. Usually only VoG or skolas final battle. There is no excuse. It all depends on how much you want to do it.