Sounds like you're running low on vagina. What if DEEJ plays Destiny at bungie HQ all day and reads to forums and takes care of meetings. At the end of the day instead of playing more Destiny on his personal time he instead has a relationship with his wife and newborn daughter. Maybe he doesn't want to take work home with him. If he has any free time let DEEJ do what he wants. You're life revolves around this game because you have no friends or girlfriend but don't put it on others