Most of the time PVP lag is caused by local internet connections, not the actual game servers, if your having lag issues I suggest you run a hardline from your router to your system, you also may want to update your router and/or modem for cable or DSL. if either one is older than 5yrs you will have issues. there are support websites that help with finding people, who knows you may make new friends that are on as much as you are