Here's what is very telling about your view: you think that the dames scandal was some big scandal that has put us all in hiding. The dames troll was typical. It has happened. To plenty of women and girls. It continues. All the time. your faith in humanity is commendable, that you think people can be reasoned with and forced to make good decisions... It belays your youth. That is not how the world works. Me being female and shooting imaginary monsters with some kid is not going to fix years of environmental influences that have turned him into some woman-bashing troll with no empathy. It's up to people's family, friends, and society in general to make that kind of behavior unacceptable all day every day. So if you have any friends or family that act like hooligans, do us all a favor and take action. In the mean time if I want to get a nf done quickly without spending ten minutes waiting to see if I'm going to be hit on, insulted, or treated like I'm incapable, I'm running with my lady friends. And again for the record, we don't exclusively play with girls, many of us are in other clans as well and play with friends and family and lfg randos. We're not cloistered nuns.