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The shader for breast cancer awareness would be good, but I don't think the shader should be implemented for "the ladies," it should be for everyone to wear, especially for breast cancer awareness.
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  • Seriously? Of course everyone can wear it, just as everyone can wear the current shaders. The games not going to say "nope, can't wear this as you are a man" everyone gets colors are colors, and the reason certain colors are typically considered masculine or feminine bc the colors relate to the descriptions (soft colors are considered feminine bc of nature, generally associated with flowers) of course anyone can wear any color. Stop trolling people, we got the point, you don't judge based on color and you teach your children the same as should others but you shouldn't be knocking on the fact that many women prefer "feminine" colors,and would like them incorporated. I would like a neon /like green color besides middaye

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  • Also I'm not "knocking" on femininity, I just don't think it's appropriate to make colors exclusively for gender since color is something that is gender less. Pink was originally masculine. And you think I'm trolling? How amusing that my opinion is considered trolling to you. Guess that makes you a troll yourself.

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  • It's one thing to let op know your opinion and the facts of life (Cole doesn't choose gender, gender chooses color.),but repeating the same thing to a dozen different people, and pressing your opinion that colors should remain gender less is trolling. People can feel what they wish, it's fine. If they think pink is for girls fine, no reason attack them for it.

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  • No it's not trolling it's my opinion. I shared it, I'm not pushing it. It's because my opinion is different than yours that you view it as trolling, which it is not. I shared my opinion in comments and that is simply it. Trolling would be going to every single one of the OPs posts and flipping out. [spoiler]I'm a girl[/spoiler]

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  • What's you being female have to do with anything. I scrolled through the first day 25 replies to this post and over 50% of the replies are yours repeating the same thing, btw my opinion is the same as yours.. Being I have a pink skateboard bc one of my favorite colors is pink, I also have a purple dress shirt which I wear often in the winter. However when I go through the past and see what appears to be harassment /bullying I tend to say something about it as is my personality to help prevent /stop bullying. Now if you truly aren't pressing people a good way to start is "I like the idea, however I feel..." people tend to take things a little better, especially being you can't show emotion and mannerisms very well in text. Lastly, it's a better habit to read through the post, leave a comment, then move along. Some people may not see it that posted previously but it helps avoid confrontations like this as it doesn't look like someone is trying to curve the views of while populous. :)

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  • Edited by N7riseSSJ: 9/2/2015 9:22:13 PM
    I pointed out that I was a girl because it seemed like you misread my identity. If you agree with me, not sure why you're arguing so much. Also I'm not bullying, not sure how this; [quote]The shader for breast cancer awareness would be good, but I don't think the shader should be implemented for "the ladies," it should be for everyone to wear, especially for breast cancer awareness.[/quote] Would somehow equate to bullying, you're definitely making a mountain out of a molehill. As for writing responses in forums and how I write them, if you misinterpret what I say that is hardly my fault. I shouldn't have to word my opinions any certain way other than the way I want to, I am not in control of how people respond. Like I said I stated my opinion, and you're the only one up in arms about it as being something bad when it is not. I post my opinion and left it there, and went on to read others. Not sure how or why someone could get so unbelievably offended by that.

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  • I'm not offended however that specific post wasn't what I was referring, more or less I was referring to the multiple comments saying the same thing, then it was brought up that breast cancer awareness should be number 1, and that for argued about for? Why does it have to come first, it's a great idea but I took for the ladies and breast cancer awareness as the same principle/the breast cancer awareness is the reason I read the post as I'm sure many other after the edit. And if it wasn't trolling why was it so desperately argued about, and why did op ask to stop trolling? It comes down to this, many people made comments and a lot of them got jumped on talking about gender equality which you staying that you are a female is almost hinting the opposite. After the formers got jumped on they all seemed to take at least some of it to heart, which started a vicious circle as instead of stopping with one person /comment, the same comment was posted on several occasions over and over. It has nothing to do with gender or your opinion, the reason I made a stand is bc the positive energy went negative the further down I went them I saw op ask to stop trolling. Again is ok to have an opinion and to state it but to repeat the same thing despite multiple defensive responses could be considered trolling.

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  • Arguing for my opinion isn't trolling. If that was true then you yourself are trolling at this very moment. It was an argument of different opinions nothing more or nothing less. If you have a problem with what others are saying you should comment on their posts because I am not associated with them. I stated my opinion, argued back for my opinion, and that was it. Still not sure why this is such a big deal.

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  • Arguing for your opinion? It's your opinion if people don't see eye to eye then let them, nobody is right or wrong and I didn't see op say no it goes the way it goes bc I don't think breast cancer awareness should come first, she simply said it was an edit (which is a fact) and said she didn't want to change the original post as she shouldn't bc honestly it wasn't her idea and she respected that. Yes bca comes first, it's a secret understanding, but it doesn't need to be posted that way, now is it a big deal is she says can we have pink for the ladies, sure men can wear it to, that's not what she was saying, but she was saying there should be more naturally feminine colors. And though purple used to signify royalty and pink was considered masculine in the 1700s they are still naturally feminine (I grew up with 3 women and was the only male, I played with barbies when younger and my favorite color has always been purple yet I always knew they were "girly." also I was the only male in the cna course I took. All I'm saying is there is a difference between stating your opinion and believing in it, to not let people step in your opinion, but nobody said you were wrong, they just simply posted. Then they got the same spiel posted over and over like their opinions were wrong. Not saying you can't have an opinion but others can have opinions to and if it's that pink is feminine, so what. Btw when you stayed you were female, which I didn't make any conjectures that you were male or female, it seemed as if there was some gender discrimination there, like bc you were female I was supposed to act different or something, honestly it would have meant more hearing that speech from a male as more men than women won't wear certain colors bc of gender discrepancies. Guys are more judgemental in those ways IMHO :) Last I'm not trying to make you feel bad or make you take up a different opinion, I was just trying to enlighten you that your choice of vocabulary and consistency may seem a bit harsh and judgmental toward some/could be taken as bullying /trolling Sorry for the misconception :)

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  • I'm really not interested in talking about this further. You're way reading into my initial posts and into intentions that were never stated. I don't know why you're taking my opinion so personally, you should really let it go if it bothers you that much. Goodbye.

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  • Our opinions are for the most part the same, I see you read my replies. Anyway I was simply speaking up for the soft spoken. Opinions are opinions, they are different, but it's OK bc they're not fact. Have a good day ma'am.

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  • I never said not everyone can wear it, I just don't like people saying it should be for women. That's all I'm saying

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