The thing is you said you take care of yours in all aspects He probably doesn't I take care of my girl but I also wouldn't put a game above her however she also likes to sit with me and watch so I guess for me it's a win-win. My point is don't put ANYTHING before your girl she's the most important thing you have cause once she's gone (if she's a good one) you'll hate the fact you did put something before her. That's just my view and I'm not whipped by any means she doesn't care if I game or how long but that's because I balance. [spoiler]OP sounds like he's a little addicted to destiny and probably would ignore his girls needs for it. Therefore should be whipped[/spoiler]