Are you serious? You think someone who makes 25k annually and has a family of 4 can afford to spend $20 on lunch? How much do you think rent is? What about buying grocery every week? Not to mention gas. What about the electricity and utility bills? And 4 kids? Do you know the average amount you spend just to raise a kid until they're an adult? It over $200k which would make the average amount spent on a kid about 20k/year. I'm still in college and I had a perspective of all these things back in high school. You're just a kid saying random things that you have no clue about.