Dude listen close. Confidence. If you don't have it, fake it (no one can really tell at your age). Everyone is attracted to confidence. Women (girls) are societally and instinctually drawn to confident males. It's basic biology. Also, punch bullies right in the nose. Do it everytime and they will seek weaker prey. What else... stay away from those who always seem to lose or draw lots of problems to themselves. They will always try to keep you at their level and infect you with their problems. Don't trust anything that is someone opinion. If it were real we would call it a fact. And, I'm sure you hear this alot but seriously, stay off drugs and away from those that use them. Even weed can have rest of your life repercussions if you indulge too early. And finally, know that however good or bad your life seems now, it will get better. Just make it to college without a record or an addiction and you will be loving life.