Actually I was being quite serious at the same time. We play the game. Our intent is to build confidence in a group of players who have been historically stereotyped as having an inherent disadvantage. We want women to see that there are many kinds of women who play this game and have similar experiences. Past that they are encouraged to play amongst them selves and with anyone else they wish. Also I do not call myself a feminist and would not speak for our members on how they define their perspectives. Our shared female experience and love of destiny are our two agendas only. Categorical shunning of males and segregating ourselves is not something we encourage. As for equality, we have been asked to admit males but I cannot speak for their experiences so that would not be something I would do. Calling a male a sister would be a gendered noun mismatch and also not equal. So there's that too.