I have never experienced this and im sorry for all the guardians who have had this bad experience... its sad becauae for me part of the game is to help others so they can hopefully help more people and so on. For example when im trying to explain the raid and someone dies or is struggling with something, ill ask them what is killing them and give them constructive criticism in order to help them get better. For example we were running hard oryx and one guy kept dying on the platform and we would wipe and everytime we asked what happened all we heard was silence (even though i knew who was dying all the time). So i said: "look, not pointing fingers but who is dying each time?" He finally spoke up but sounded terrified. I just said okay, whats killing you? It turns out he was struggling with dropping the ogre and then killing his night while looking out for the acolytes eye (which is a lot to look out for at first). So instead of yelling at him or making fun of him, i told him i would take out the acolytes and the knight for him from middle. Sure enough a couple runs later we beat the raid (and he was eventually able to kill his ogre and knight) and he apologized and explained that noone ever helped him and instead just called him useless and booted him. It was sad but made me happy to know that i helped him and hopefully he will have better gaming experiences from now on. Sorry for the long comment, i just felt like sharing because players in this community are so selfish and rude sometimes and it ahouldnt be that way.