Out of the 100s of kids I've probably come across on games over the years of playing, only 2 have ever been chilled. it's nothing against them as people, they just haven't got to the age where they think about other people and how they impact others. Most people who are older and working, want to get on, get things done and have a no drama run. What they don't want is some sub 15 year old that thinks they're the sh*t, has an irritating voice, but also the wrong attitude. It's the attitude that gets me, most of them don't seem to understand that people don't give a f*ck them, they're not a special snowflake and other people have opinions too. It really stems from a lack of discipline with the parents. As for people judging everyone, that's real life and cannot be avoided unless you go and live in the mountains somewhere in a solitary existence. Agree, it can get annoying sometimes, but it is what it is, that's part of why real life is tough and you need to build resilience to it all.