Never been abused on a raid but know what your talking about. 90 percent of the time the person giving the abuse is not much better than the person he is abusing . I always call them on it. Start pointing out there deaths and shortcomings. I can't stand bullys in any form be it at the supermarket work or online I always call them on it. If you come across you just leave don't allow yourself to become a victim to there incompetence. My father when I was young that bullys are people who compensate for their own failures they project their insecuritys on the meek and the quiet. It's why I call them out ounce you realise it's actually them who are the weak 1s they hold no sway on you. Bullying should not be considered a social norm. It should be stamped out wherever encountered