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Edited by JustTyler:
3/12/2015 8:45:47 AM
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Hate Against Kids (Rant)
Hello I am a [u]13 year old[/u] gamer and I play [b]Destiny[/b]. When I join someone or go on [b]raids [/b]I am Called "[i]Squeaker[/i]".
I am apparently someone to laugh at and abuse for being [u]2 years[/u] younger then another person. About 1 in 15 people are nice and don't care. When I need help with a Raid I invite people and ask people for help, then I am abused because I am [u]13 [/u]and have a voice that is kind of high.
I play with[u] 6-9 year old's[/u] if they need help... most other people just bully them and ruin the experience of Communication on this awesome [b]MMO[/b]. I love [b]Destiny [/b]it is fascinating and enjoyable... but about [b]70%[/b] of the community are bullies towards "Little Kids". If you don't want to play with someone because they have a voice that you absolutely can't stand, don't be a Bully just say "Sorry I really don't want to do this... I want to do other things" as appose to hurting feelings and being a dick.
You were a kid once whats wrong with it?
If they are screaming in the microphone and being really Annoying then give them a chance tell them your gonna kick them if they keep going, then if they keep going don't retaliate just be chill and say "Hey you had your warning... sorry your being kicked".
The thread is about people being bullies after they say a few words in a high voice. Also if they try to be funny don't laugh and say that wasn't really that funny try something else. About 4 years ago I got Xbox with COD and I did these things to so I can understand why people gave them this reputation. I feel it should be changed a little bit. Fighting fire with fire never works out it's just a waste of time.
If this is changed I would think [b]Destiny [/b]would be more inviting and people under [u]14 [/u] would enjoy it a lot more!
Also shut up about ratings. Look at the movies people sneak in all the time your not gonna stop anything.
In Australia you are allowed to play it so you can't say crap about kids from Aussie. Think of something without involving ratings or do you need to rely on them?
[spoiler]Australia has different spelling and grammar and I am 13 get off my case.[/spoiler]
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Sorry you're having bad experiences. It's a large issue to tackle that combines some very intricate social issues like addressing the way people behave while hiding behind anonymity, people maturing in this environment and the way it is affecting social skills, how to change this behaviour in a forum that is under regulated (both legally it is a very grey area and socially there are very few social ramifications for being a dick). At this point all you can do is be selective of who you chose to play with, and report abusive players. Bungie has a system in place for this, and the more it is used, the more effective it will become. Personally I don't usually play with people your age because our interests and perspectives tend to be very different, but I'm not a Jerk about it. Like you said, I was your age once and respect that at that time in my life we were quite similar and just excuse myself from the game and find one that is populated by people more in line with where I'm at. That being said I've found lots of young gamers who are very chill and are a pleasure to shoot things with. Good luck, and never let the bastards get you down. There are lots of good people to play with.
