So if bungie gave you the finger would you still be defending them?

I'm not defending "Bungie" as such, I'm pointing out the ignorance of the self entitled attitude of some of the community including that shown in the OP. To answer your question…….Bungie has in a way already given me the finger by not including an optional matchmaking system which is something I feel strongly about. The worst part of the game for me is wasting time on LFG sites. I feel they can spend some money on an in-game LFG system where I don't have to race to send out invites in order to be first in line to join an activity. If Bungie responded by saying "Listen up, we are getting tired of constant requests for optional matchmaking, it's not going to happen so bloody get over it!!" I wouldn't be offended and I'd still play. My thoughts would be "bit of a harsh comment but at least they're clear about it".

To me that that would be unacceptable. I'm also dissapointed that for all intents and purposes you'd be willing to just take it up the arse and you criticise people for giving negative feedback.