I wouldn't complain I meant. And yeah I am going through, I just found this thread. And of course he isn't hurting you but you could say that about facials or sexist comments too. They offend you, his comment was attacking your intelligence at least that's how I saw it. I didn't really care about it though. My point is that it was a sly backhanded comment. If your argument is that is was a backhanded comment then tell me why it wasn't. If you argument is that we shouldn't take the backhand comment seriously than do not reply to me.