I've been being flirty with this girl from school, we went on a couple of dates, and now she's totally obsessed with me. I don't really like her very much but I don't know how to let her down
She just texted this to me:
[spoiler]Dear John,
I'm so glad that I found such a great guy like you. I don't even know if I deserve you. I like you so much that I'm scared that I might become selfish, haha. You're so sweet, cheesy(corny), understanding, kind, and just overall amazing. I'm truly amazed how I got the chance to meet you and have such a heart warming relationship with you. That you so much for understanding even though you might not get the situation. You are honestly perfect even you're flaws are perfect. (even though I doubt you have any flaws) . You make me smile when I'm feeling down and give me butterflies in my stomach when you give me hugs and when you gave me a kiss on the top of my head. I smile when I think about you and feel stupidly retarded when people ask me why I'm smiling. I feel pathetic when I'm crying because I'm scared of losing someone I care about. I'll always be there for you when you need someone I promise. You can be the hero and I'll be your sidekick. I'm sorry for being so stupid sometimes. But to be honest I'm scared to date you because dating me can be a handful, and I'm scared that I might not be the person you thought I was and not want me anymore. I'm pathetic and such a cry baby. I like you a lot. I hope you do too. I miss you when I can't see your face. And I'm sorry for getting you into trouble. I don't want you to get hurt. I just wanted to tell you this. Well I have to shower bye. [/spoiler]
[b]UPDATE[/b]: broke up with her via text. The deed is done
[b]UPDATE 2[/b]: she's called me three times today
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text was to long, kill her
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Edited by Xela Ronnoc: 11/12/2015 11:34:51 PMrun trust me i've been with a girl like that -blam-ing leg it most of the time when she is talking about 'situations' and 'i have a few problems' that kinda stuff they are often rather serious issues/situations so unless you really like her and are happy to devote an absolute crap ton i've time and energy to her don't do it
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Get in and get out[spoiler]If ya catch my drift[/spoiler]
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Give her a chance man. Girls this devoted are few and far between.
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Edited by Busdriver Bair: 11/12/2015 10:43:49 PMDude give the girl a chance. You won't regret it. Being in a relationship is the best thing on this earth. Who knows, you and her might actually be good together.
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Edited by DukeOfStuffing: 11/13/2015 2:55:50 AMThat looks like a giant wall of emotional manipulation. Or maybe you're just that hot? Sources: I was in highschool once. [spoiler]You should definitely marry her, though.[/spoiler]
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Edited by jor-el216: 11/12/2015 9:15:28 PMDude ride it out ok, sometimes a relationship like that turns into something more and if u are still not in college and she wants to marry you Wait you never know. But this is up to you
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Edited by Promethean241: 11/12/2015 4:44:06 PMExpected bel air [b][i][u]EXTREMELY[/u][/i][/b] disappointed
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[quote]Because you opened this. you will get kissed on Friday by the person you love or like. Tomorrow will be the best day of your life. Do not break this chain. You have 2 minutes this is not a fake...apparently. Forward this to 15 people in the next 15 minutes and you WILL have the best day of your life tomorrow. You're number one crush will either KISS, ask you out, or call you. If you break this chain, the little girl named Kaitlyn who died 2 years ago on a car crash will be in your room TONIGHT! Good luck <<3, and your time starts, right know No Cheatin Haha[/quote]
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-blam!- her right in the pussy.
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Bang her
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Well then.....that uhh... Hmmm. Sorry error 404
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Dont lead people on when you dont like them. Makes you look like a full blown moron. How about you stick it out instead of breaking her heart and giving her trust issues. Just a thought for yah romeo lol
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Teach her boundaries, or be a complete piece of shit (either way, that will change her view about you) ...
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I've been in this exact predicament. She's having some kind of family issues which is the " situation" I assume. If it's too big a problem and you don't honestly aim to help her, tell her she needs to have her stuff together b beforeshe can invest herself in someone else.
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Edited by Cmdr Chaos: 11/12/2015 4:23:37 PMDude. She texted you a dear John letter? Lmao. [spoiler]sorry. That's a shitty situation to be in.[/spoiler]
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Edited by Bran2Faded: 11/12/2015 8:46:44 PMYou probably won't get a girl as loyal as she but if you dont like her ignore the living shit out of her it'll either come to her or she'll annoy the living shit out of you that's what I did with this one girl because I didn't want to hurt her feelings
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Is she hawt?
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I don't see your problem.
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Was really expecting dinosaur walking or bel air prince fresh at the end. Real disappointed
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Dude with a message like that at least offer to pay her phone bill, As for taking her out a couple of times you have led her on, if you only wanted to boink her, then one more date should do the trick, if not you've got to be honest sit down with her and say you are a crazy bitch deuces
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Its not like that bro she loves ya I have an Amazing girl and she's the same way It's not creepy If you dont feel mutual tell her tho because she really does love you
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You don't really like her, yet you've gone on dates with her? Eh, whatever floats your goat, man. But really, you should cut your ties now before you get in too deep. Let her down slowly, and by that I mean tie a cinderblock to her feet and throw her into the ocean, her grammar is atrocious.
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Edited by WhaleBike: 11/12/2015 4:21:11 PMDuuudeee saaaammmmmeeee Except I don't know who it is that is texting me And they think my name is Fernando But I'm white, and my name is jake. Text from person: FERNANDO I DONT LIKE LYING SOO I WANT TO TELL YOU THAT AMMY AND SARA WERE RIGHT I LIKE YOU , YOU STOLE MY HEART ( give it back) ! EVERY SINGLE TIME MY EYES FOUND YOUR EYES THEY JUST COULD NOT STOP STARRING AT YOU ! ANF MY HEART BEATED FASTER !IF I COULD GIVE YOU ONE THING IN LIFE , I WOULD GIVE YOU THE ABILITY TO SEE YOURSELF THROUGH MY EYES ONLY THEN YOU WOULD REALIZE HOW SPECIAL YOU ARE TO ME !! FERNANDO .......... I LOVE YOU
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Break up via text its only been like 2 dates either that or nail her then break up in person lol.
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Need to see pics of her before I can determine what advice to give you.