Looking up your account, I don't see you listed as a member of Sisterhood. If you're a member under a different account, or just hopping on to our thread, please do not presume to speak for us, particularly when what you say doesn't reflect our views. As I explained to the person who originally asked the question, it's identity that matters to us, not biology. Surgery is no one's business but the person choosing whether or not to have it, and identity has nothing to do with surgery.