Can you not see the hypocrisy? You expect men to change, yet women should not be judged on the way they dress or act? Yes, boys act that way its called testosterone and puberty. Changing of hormones. But, here you are implying women are innoncent and the target of oppression. Men should take responsibility for there own actions, as well as women should. I see feminist all the time saying I should not be judge for what I wear. Yes, your clan is nice, women can feel empowered. Excluding men was my point, you know my "not so great example" you are still targeting a certain group and excluding them. I believe the term is separatists. The only way change is going to happen is if you bring the opposites together. Its a way to help share ideals and state your opinion. I said enabling because the vibe I get from groups like this are giving the ideals I am self-entitled and should be able do whatever I want without being judge. Being so easily offended, never once did I target you. Just stated my opinion on the matter. Yet in your response you were trying to make assumptions and target my character. You also said that we set the examples for our children, our future. I would not like to meet your children in the future is all I can say. All in all it's an opinion. People get so offended when their own opinions or ideals are challenged.