Expecting men who exhibit inappropriate behavior to change that behavior is somehow hypocritical? Preferring that people change poor behavior instead of resorting to treating them poorly in return is somehow hypocritical? Not accepting that the target of harassment is inherently responsible for that harassment is somehow hypocritical? I think one of us is confused about the definition of hypocrisy. And let's talk about targeting people. There are a lot of comments on this thread, and I don't see you going person by person to respond to all of them, nor do I see you making a general comment on the original post. What I do see you doing is responding directly to a comment I made. A comment that wasn't directed at you, in a conversation you weren't a part of, up until you inserted yourself into it. Which is fine, you get to do that, but of all the comments you had to choose from, you chose mine, and you want to say that you didn't "target" me? I find that difficult to believe. You get to have your opinion, and I'm not offended by your challenging my opinions or ideals. I do wish your challenge was something of actual substance, some new perspective of original insight that was helpful. It has turned out to be sadly unoriginal, even for this thread. Good luck in the world, guardian.