[i] She nods and finishes her drink getting up and re filling her glass .[/i] " You sound to be a long way from being at peace with your life , I'm almost loathed to ask ,but you were telling me about what happened before you came here, well you weren't ,but I'm going to ask you anyway, because it sounds important, in particular to you, and the very worse you can do is tell me to Fk off."