You want to spend your time on the forums moaning like a whore, that is your prerogative. Just don't be surprised if you get called out for it. There are two types of people in the world: ones that cry about their problems, and ones that solve their problems. Handle your shit. Oh, and do try not to falsely accuse people if at all possible. Just because someone points out that you sound like a sniveling twat, doesn't mean that they support the thing you got your knickers in a twist over...