I can understand where you're commig from, haven't watched the videos yet but I promise I will get to it and possibly have a new opinion by then. Can I just say? (as a person not trying to defend or rationalize anything) I don't push my life on people at all. But God forbid I even have a thought of being it in public. Here's an social experiment for you, go give another guy a simple pec on the cheek in public