If I called you an idiot would you get mad?
"I swear man, I'm not trying to insult you, it's just what you are and I'm being descriptive."
Idiot.
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Except if you're a homosexual and identify as one, it is your fault that you are that way. People don't just choose to identify as idiots. Therefore calling someone "gay" is simply calling them what they are, while labeling them an "idiot" is simply an insult.