[quote]Well the whole trusting people online is a no brainer but guys fall victim to it many times. [u]"Especially Gamer Girls"[/u] what I meant by that is, if you met her randomly through a game what is stopping any other guy from meeting her as well? When it comes to Gamer Girls it is all about inspection, you need to know first whether or not if she is indeed a she: > Obviously her username is a red flag it could also be bait, so you look at her friends & followers list if it is 50-100 and higher of friends & followers, it is a very high percentage she is in fact a she. If it is lower then you get a little suspicious. > For some reason girls have these insecurities which is why they tend to have a lot of [u]"Guy friends"[/u], but can you blame them? The Internet is not a safe place and it is hard to develop trust. > But you message her and hope to develop attraction. Notice the [u]signs[/u] as you talk to her in the following weeks: - The duration of how long it takes for her to reply. - Constantly in a chat with her other guy friends. - That one guy that always followers her around like a loyal dog. - Notice the increase of followers & friends. - Notice she has her mind set on other things while you're waiting for her reply. - Her use of the word "Friends". - Her number one excuse "Busy". These are signs that she is not attracted to you and only see you as a "[u]friend"[/u] the dreaded hurtful words for any guy, they just see you as a [u]"friend"[/u] nothing more nothing less. [b]Time to move on. You deserve to be someone's #1 Not someone's #151[/b][/quote] Literally none of this is a reason to not date a gamer girl. It's just a list of signs that somebody either isn't interested, or is leading you on. None of that has to do with being a gamer. Oh and, for the record, there is nothing wrong with any woman merely meeting new male friends.