I don't think it's wrong to like blonde hair, full lips, or freckles. But it isn't right to say I find you attractive, But you are black, so I don't want to be romantic. Thats -blam!-ed up no matter how you cut it. I get that dating your race is like first nature But denying someone because of their race just is not shouldn't be 1st nature. Date who you want of course, doesn't make it any less -blam!-ed up though. The person that may make you the happiest may not come in the same wrapping a bow you imagined. I get not dating because of health issues, wealth or status, but cause I'm brown you aren't even gonna try to know me as a person? pff. Ah well, we are allowed to have our opinions.